Too many women…. and men settle for partners that just aren’t in harmony with what they actually want or deserve. I have been through it all and I had to learn through experience that it never prevails when one settles for an undeserving partner. Life is just way too short to waste your valuable and precious time on someone who makes you feel less than.
Check your thoughts about yourself: So many times we “think” we know how our partner thinks of us… “He’s not attracted to me anymore…. He thinks I’m ugly… He thinks I’m a doormat… He doesn’t love me anymore… I’m not good enough” are prime examples of things that we may feel our partners feel about us.. This can be true and this can also be false.. In most cases, this is just our own thoughts of what WE feel about ourselves..
This way of thinking and feeling can actually snowball into you tricking yourself into actually believing that you can’t find anyone better or that you may not deserve better treatment. The harsh truth is that you deserve exactly what you allow yourself to deserve.. If you throw a woman who has an EXTREMELY low self esteem with a good partner… She may not know what how to act in that relationship.. She is so comfortable with being treated like crap, and so uncomfortable with being treated good, that she chases him away by sabotaging the relationship, not knowing HOW to be in a loving relationship… Asking questions like… “Why are you with me?” and in most cases, feeling even lower than she felt in the horrible relationship only because she has an exaggerated feeling of not being good enough than she ever did before.. In her subconscious mind, she feels he deserves better than her… This is exactly why, she is NOT ready, just yet, for that knight and shining armor until and only when she has had some time by herself to truly appreciate and develop her self worth…
Acknowledging that there is something to heal is the first step.. Next post, we shall dig deep with an exercise that helped me unveil so much about myself.. We have to dig deep to understand WHY we are the way we are before we can truly move on and heal.. I will post an exercise from one of my favorite authors Barbara D’Angelis .. It’s truly powerful.. Until next time beauties! Love & Light :-)